How To Raise Your Parents: Week 2

How to Raise Your Parents: Week 2
When you want a different family
9/20/15 – Wildlife

Key Scripture:Children, obey your parents because you belong to the Lord, for this is the right thing to do. “Honor your father and mother.” This is the first commandment with a promise: If you honor your father and mother, “things will go well for you, and you will have a long life on the earth.” – Ephesians 6:1-3


1. Rely on God’s sufficient love and grace.

“O God, you are my God; I earnestly search for you. My soul thirsts for you; my whole body longs for you in this parched and weary land where there is no water I have seen you in your sanctuary and gazed upon your power and glory. Your unfailing love is better than life itself; how I praise you!” – Psalm 63:1-3

“Therefore, in order to keep me from becoming conceited, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan, to torment me. Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” – 2 Corinthians 12:7-10


2. Realize that God wants to use you to impact your family(for the better, not for worse. Your actions matter).

Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other. Never be lazy, but work hard and serve the Lord enthusiastically. Rejoice in our confident hope. Be patient in trouble, and keep on praying. When God’s people are in need, be ready to help them. Always be eager to practice hospitality. Bless those who persecute you. Don’t curse them; pray that God will bless them. Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep. Live in harmony with each other. Don’t be too proud to enjoy the company of ordinary people. And don’t think you know it all! Never pay back evil with more evil. Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable. Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone.” – Romans 12:9-18

  • Pray. (Be patient in trouble and keep on praying –v.12)
  • Seek peace. (Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone – v.18)
  • Choose a different response. (v. 9-10, 14; also 1-2)

“And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him. Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.” – Romans 12:1-2


Discussion Questions

1. What stood out to you about what Andie shared tonight?

2. Have you ever wished for a different family/parents? (Or thought someone else’s parents were better)? In what ways?

3. When are the hardest times to honor and respect your parents?

4. Read Romans 12:1-2, 9-18. Which phrases stand out to you as you think about your relationship with your parents?

5. How might God be calling you to pray, seek peace or choose a different response this week?